Deacon Tom's Homily for Thursday May 3rd

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It’s common for someone to say, “I know the way”, but if you asked someone, “I don’t know the way,” who would respond with “I am the Way”. Only Jesus can say this because he himself is the way. But it’s the way to what? It is the way to the Father and to his Father’s house, where Jesus will prepare a place for us. Jesus doesn’t just teach people the way to God. He doesn’t just give an example of the right way to live. He doesn’t just come along as a guide along the way. Jesus does all of these and more.

You would think the early Christians would be able to grasp Jesus’ meaning of “I am the way, and the truth, and the life”. Part of understanding the whole experience of the resurrection of Jesus is to see the apostles and those who came after them learning bit by bit the meaning of the event and what it says to them about Jesus. This whole process took time.

Paul tells us there were disputes and rivalries among the early believers. But as time stretched into centuries, the words would stand as an abiding promise of unity in such diversity. Even today, we may not be able to grasp Jesus’ call to salvation clearly, for there seems to be many paths. We benefit from more than 2000 years of reflection, but we still must tell the story ourselves. On our own, we will not be able to find a way to express Jesus’ call fully. But that is not ours to worry about because the Holy Spirit will guide us. God has a way of revealing himself in and through all cultures and times.

Because of Philip’s personal history with Jesus, we may wonder how he could possibly say, “Show us the Father”[1]. After all, Jesus, the way to the Father, was standing in front of him and James and all the other apostles[2]. Plus, Jesus had just declared, “If you know me, then you will also know my Father”[3]. But maybe we should go easy on Philip. Here we are, two thousand years and twenty-one councils later, and even we can have trouble understanding what God is up to!

Recall how Jesus responded to Philip. He said, “The Father who dwells in me is doing his works. Believe me . . . or else, believe because of the works themselves[4]”. Jesus was encouraging him not to give up when he couldn’t understand, but to keep asking, seeking, and knocking for the answers.

We may not understand everything. We may feel as if we don’t understand anything. But we can shift our focus from what we cannot understand to what we can grasp.

For example, you may not be able to wrap your mind around how Jesus is present in the Eucharist under the appearance of bread and wine. But you can marvel that Eucharistic celebrations happen 350,000 times every day all over the world.

Perhaps you’re having a hard time understanding a certain passage in Scripture, and it is weighing on your mind. “Will I ever learn?” you ask yourself. But you can remember how deeply Jesus blesses childlike faith, because a childlike person has a heart that is uncomplicated and wise, loving, and trusting in God.

Maybe you’re struggling to understand why you don’t always feel God’s presence when you pray. But you can try to dwell on ways you have already seen his work. You might sense his peace during a moment of early-morning tranquility. Or just the opposite: you might discover his sense of humor in the chaos of a messy situation. Let his workings, both great and small, stir your faith! Today is the National Day of Prayer with its theme from Ephesians: Make every effort to keep yourselves united in the Spirit, binding yourselves together with peace[5].

Philip and James’ stories didn’t end with today’s Gospel reading. These two men went on to become two of the evangelists and martyrs who laid the very foundation of the Church. God was working then, even when they couldn’t see it. And he’s working now! The task of discipleship belongs to all of us.  What will we say to those who ask us, "We would like to see Jesus?"

[1] (John 14:8)

[2] (14:6)

[3] (14:7)

[4](John 14:10-11)

[5] Ephesians 4:3

Pope Francis Points Us to Holiness: Key Quotes from Guadete et Exsultate (part 1)

Pope Francis Points Us to Holiness: Key Quotes from Guadete et Exsultate (part 1)

 MAY 1, 2018 BY FR MATTHEW P. SCHNEIDER, LC

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Pope Francis has produced an excellent document on the Christian call to holiness called Gaudete et Exsultate. Here are the most important passages with minimal commentary for those who don’t have time to read it all or those who want a refresher. These quotes got too long so I split in into 2 articles to be published one day after the next. Here’s part 1, including chapters 1-3. Part 2 if you want to jump ahead. (The numbers after each quote are the paragraph numbers in case you want to examine a point in more depth.)

Pope Francis’ Goal: “My modest goal is to repropose the call to holiness in a practical way for our own time, with all its risks, challenges and opportunities.” 2

Chapter 1: The [Universal] Call to Holiness

This chapter of Gaudete et Exsultate gives a basic outline of holiness.

The saints in heaven have a certain unity with us: “The saints now in God’s presence preserve their bonds of love and communion with us.” 4

We are all called to holiness but that holiness can be achieved in simple everyday ways.

  • “I like to contemplate the holiness present in the patience of God’s people: in those parents who raise their children with immense love, in those men and women who work hard to support their families, in the sick, in elderly religious who never lose their smile. In their daily perseverance I see the holiness of the Church militant.” 7
  • “The most decisive turning points in world history are substantially co-determined by souls whom no history book ever mentions.” [those who prayed] 8

Saints give us examples but we should see their virtue not copy each detail. “We should not grow discouraged before examples of holiness that appear unattainable. There are some testimonies that may prove helpful and inspiring, but that we are not meant to copy, for that could even lead us astray from the one specific path that the Lord has in mind for us.” 11

Again, everyone can be a saint… “To be holy does not require being a bishop, a priest or a religious. We are frequently tempted to think that holiness is only for those who can withdraw from ordinary affairs to spend much time in prayer. That is not the case. We are all called to be holy by living our lives with love and by bearing witness in everything we do, wherever we find ourselves.” 14

“Holiness, in the end, is the fruit of the Holy Spirit in your life.” 15

Jesus gives us the strength to be holy. “When you feel the temptation to dwell on your own weakness, raise your eyes to Christ crucified and say: ‘Lord, I am a poor sinner, but you can work the miracle of making me a little bit better.’” 15

“When Cardinal François-Xavier Nguyên van Thuân was imprisoned, he refused to waste time waiting for the day he would be set free. Instead, he chose ‘to live the present moment, filling it to the brim with love.’” 17

“We are capable of loving with the Lord’s unconditional love, because the risen Lord shares his powerful life with our fragile lives.” 18

The whole Trinity makes us holy: “The measure of our holiness stems from the stature that Christ achieves in us, to the extent that, by the power of the Holy Spirit, we model our whole life on his.” 21, Benedict XVI, Catechesis, General Audience of April 13, 2011

The kingdom matters: all Christians are called to build it. “ Just as you cannot understand Christ apart from the kingdom he came to bring, so too your personal mission is inseparable from the building of that kingdom.” 25

The intention with which we do acts matters. “Needless to say, anything done out of anxiety, pride or the need to impress others will not lead to holiness. We are challenged to show our commitment in such a way that everything we do has evangelical meaning and identifies us all the more with Jesus Christ.” 28 – Note: this is a non-medical sense of anxiety so if you have clinical anxiety don’t feel like that is an obstacle to holiness.

Holiness leads to fruit in ministry/apostolate. “To the extent that each Christian grows in holiness, he or she will bear greater fruit for our world.” 33

Chapter 2: Two Subtle Enemies of Holiness [Gnosticism and Pelagianism]

This chapter of Gaudete et Exsultate offers a critique of two errors that are be present in some people’s thoughts on holiness.

Gnosticism  tends towards a certain intellectual elitism. “Thanks be to God, throughout the history of the Church it has always been clear that a person’s perfection is measured not by the information or knowledge they possess, but by the depth of their charity… [Gnostics] think of the intellect as separate from the flesh, and thus become incapable of touching Christ’s suffering flesh in others, locked up as they are in an encyclopaedia of abstractions.” 37

“Gnosticism is one of the most sinister ideologies because, while unduly exalting knowledge or a specific experience, it considers its own vision of reality to be perfect.” 40

“When somebody has an answer for every question, it is a sign that they are not on the right road.” 41 (This refers to pride of thinking you know every answer not arguing there isn’t a right answer.)

Pelagianism: “The same power that the gnostics attributed to the intellect, others now began to attribute to the human will, to personal effort.” 47

We can’t save ourselves and opposition to this pervades Pelagian thinking. “Those who yield to this pelagian or semi-pelagian mindset, even though they speak warmly of God’s grace, ‘ultimately trust only in their own powers and feel superior to others because they observe certain rules or remain intransigently faithful to a particular Catholic style.’” 49, Evangelii Gaudium 94

On the other side, God can save us. “The Church has repeatedly taught that we are justified not by our own works or efforts, but by the grace of the Lord, who always takes the initiative.” 52

Grace isn’t instantaneous but slowly works from inside. “Only on the basis of God’s gift, freely accepted and humbly received, can we cooperate by our own efforts in our progressive transformation. We must first belong to God, offering ourselves to him who was there first, and entrusting to him our abilities, our efforts, our struggle against evil and our creativity, so that his free gift may grow and develop within us.” 56

Chapter 3: In the Light of the Master [the Beatitudes]

Pope Francis points out the importance of the Beatitudes as a focal point of Christina life. “The Beatitudes are like a Christian’s identity card. So if anyone asks: ‘What must one do to be a good Christian?’ the answer is clear. We have to do, each in our own way, what Jesus told us in the Sermon on the Mount. In the Beatitudes, we find a portrait of the Master, which we are called to reflect in our daily lives.” 63

This chapter of Gaudete et Exsultate is the most beautiful of the exhortation. However, it is a meditation on the Beatitudes, which I assume you have already studied, so quotes are a little sparser.

What really matters isn’t wealth but love. “Wealth ensures nothing. Indeed, once we think we are rich, we can become so self-satisfied that we leave no room for God’s word, for the love of our brothers and sisters, or for the enjoyment of the most important things in life.” 68

Blessed are the merciful: “Mercy has two aspects. It involves giving, helping and serving others, but it also includes forgiveness and understanding.” 80

Acts of mercy in action: “Giving and forgiving means reproducing in our lives some small measure of God’s perfection, which gives and forgives superabundantly.” 81

“Keeping a heart free of all that tarnishes love: that is holiness.” 86

Gossip is a form of violence, violence to the heart: “The world of gossip, inhabited by negative and destructive people, does not bring peace. Such people are really the enemies of peace; in no way are they ‘blessed.’” 87

We need to be ready to be persecuted as the beatitudes instruct us. “Jesus himself warns us that the path he proposes goes against the flow, even making us challenge society by the way we live and, as a result, becoming a nuisance. He reminds us how many people have been, and still are, persecuted simply because they struggle for justice, because they take seriously their commitment to God and to others.” 90

“If we truly start out anew from the contemplation of Christ, we must learn to see him especially in the faces of those with whom he himself wished to be identified.” 96, John Paul II, Novo Millennio Ineunte

“There is the error of those Christians who separate these Gospel demands from their personal relationship with the Lord, from their interior union with him, from openness to his grace. Christianity thus becomes a sort of NGO stripped of the luminous mysticism so evident in the lives of Saint Francis of Assisi, Saint Vincent de Paul, Saint Teresa of Calcutta, and many others.” 100

“The other harmful ideological error is found in those who find suspect the social engagement of others, seeing it as superficial, worldly, secular, materialist, communist or populist. Or they relativize it, as if there are other more important matters, or the only thing that counts is one particular ethical issue or cause that they themselves defend. Our defence of the innocent unborn, for example, needs to be clear, firm and passionate, for at stake is the dignity of a human life, which is always sacred and demands love for each person, regardless of his or her stage of development. Equally sacred, however, are the lives of the poor, those already born, the destitute, the abandoned and the underprivileged, the vulnerable infirm and elderly exposed to covert euthanasia, the victims of human trafficking, new forms of slavery, and every form of rejection.[84] We cannot uphold an ideal of holiness that would ignore injustice in a world where some revel, spend with abandon and live only for the latest consumer goods, even as others look on from afar, living their entire lives in abject poverty.” 101. This is the flipside of John Paul II who would emphasize you can help the poor, sick, etc. without trying to end abortion – as Catholics, we are both-and.

“We may think that we give glory to God only by our worship and prayer, or simply by following certain ethical norms. It is true that the primacy belongs to our relationship with God, but we cannot forget that the ultimate criterion on which our lives will be judged is what we have done for others.” 104.

Pope Francis Moves Us towards Holiness: Key Quotes from Guadete et Exsultate (part 2)

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 MAY 1, 2018 BY FR MATTHEW P. SCHNEIDER, LC

 Pope Francis has produced an excellent document on the Christian call to holiness called Gaudete et Exsultate. Here are the most important passages with minimal commentary for those who don’t have time to read it all or those who want a refresher. These quotes got too long so I split in into 2 articles to be published one day after the next. Here’s part 2, including chapters 4 & 5. Part 1 in case you missed it earlier.

Again, Pope Francis’ Goal: “My modest goal is to repropose the call to holiness in a practical way for our own time, with all its risks, challenges and opportunities.” 2

Chapter 4: Signs of Holiness in Today’s World

This chapter of Gaudete et Exsultate gives some pointers to know how to live out holiness today.

Prayer is always our anchor: “We need to recognize and combat our aggressive and selfish inclinations, and not let them take root. ‘Be angry but do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger’ (Eph 4:26). When we feel overwhelmed, we can always cling to the anchor of prayer, which puts us back in God’s hands and the source of our peace.” 114

The dangers of discourse on the internet in ways we would never speak IRL. “Christians too can be caught up in networks of verbal violence through the internet and the various forums of digital communication. Even in Catholic media, limits can be overstepped, defamation and slander can become commonplace, and all ethical standards and respect for the good name of others can be abandoned. The result is a dangerous dichotomy, since things can be said there that would be unacceptable in public discourse, and people look to compensate for their own discontent by lashing out at others. It is striking that at times, in claiming to uphold the other commandments, they completely ignore the eighth, which forbids bearing false witness or lying, and ruthlessly vilify others. Here we see how the unguarded tongue, set on fire by hell, sets all things ablaze (cf. Jas 3:6).” 115

We need to seek to see the good in others. “It is not good when we look down on others like heartless judges, lording it over them and always trying to teach them lessons. That is itself a subtle form of violence.” 117

A tough line as we often want humility but really fear humiliations. “Humility can only take root in the heart through humiliations. Without them, there is no humility or holiness. If you are unable to suffer and offer up a few humiliations, you are not humble and you are not on the path to holiness.” 118

We need joyful images of saints. “Far from being timid, morose, acerbic or melancholy, or putting on a dreary face, the saints are joyful and full of good humor. Though completely realistic, they radiate a positive and hopeful spirit.” 122

God is with us even in hard times: “Hard times may come, when the cross casts its shadow, yet nothing can destroy the supernatural joy that ‘adapts and changes, but always endures, even as a flicker of light born of our personal certainty that, when everything is said and done, we are infinitely loved.’” 125, Evangelii Gaudium 6

Parrhesia is a word from Greek indicating the boldness of the first Christians. “Holiness is also parrhesía: it is boldness, an impulse to evangelize and to leave a mark in this world… Boldness, enthusiasm, the freedom to speak out, apostolic fervour, all these are included in the word parrhesía.” 129

The testimony of missionaries in every country. “We are inspired to act by the example of all those priests, religious, and laity who devote themselves to proclamation and to serving others with great fidelity, often at the risk of their lives and certainly at the cost of their comfort.” 138

We can’t live a full Christian life alone: “Growth in holiness is a journey in community, side by side with others.” 141

Love is shown in details: “Let us not forget that Jesus asked his disciples to pay attention to details.

  • The little detail that wine was running out at a party.
  • The little detail that one sheep was missing.
  • The little detail of noticing the widow who offered her two small coins.
  • The little detail of having spare oil for the lamps, should the bridegroom delay.
  • The little detail of asking the disciples how many loaves of bread they had.
  • The little detail of having a fire burning and a fish cooking as he waited for the disciples at daybreak.” 144

Christian community should love in the details: “A community that cherishes the little details of love, whose members care for one another and create an open and evangelizing environment, is a place where the risen Lord is present, sanctifying it in accordance with the Father’s plan.” 145

Silence and time with Jesus is needed for good discernment: “In that silence, we can discern, in the light of the Spirit, the paths of holiness to which the Lord is calling us. Otherwise, any decisions we make may only be window-dressing that, rather than exalting the Gospel in our lives, will mask or submerge it. For each disciple, it is essential to spend time with the Master, to listen to his words, and to learn from him always. Unless we listen, all our words will be nothing but useless chatter.” 150

We all ask God to take care of things in our prayers… and this expresses humility: “Prayer of supplication is an expression of a heart that trusts in God and realizes that of itself it can do nothing.” 154

We can’t acknowledge God yet ignore him. “If we realize that God exists, we cannot help but worship him, at times in quiet wonder, and praise him in festive song. We thus share in the experience of Blessed Charles de Foucauld, who said: ‘As soon as I believed that there was a God, I understood that I could do nothing other than to live for him.’” 155

Chapter 5: Spiritual Combat, Vigilance and Discernment

This chapter of Gaudete et Exsultate reveiws the three key aspects of our path to holiness mentioned in the title.

Christian life is a battle: “The Christian life is a constant battle. We need strength and courage to withstand the temptations of the devil and to proclaim the Gospel. This battle is sweet, for it allows us to rejoice each time the Lord triumphs in our lives.” 158

We are in the world but not of the world: “We are not dealing merely with a battle against the world and a worldly mentality… It is also a constant struggle against the devil, the prince of evil. Jesus himself celebrates our victories.” 159

In case you thought Pope Francis didn’t believe in the devil, “We should not think of the devil as a myth, a representation, a symbol, a figure of speech or an idea. This mistake would lead us to let down our guard, to grow careless and end up more vulnerable.” 161

“God’s word invites us clearly to ‘stand against the wiles of the devil’ (Eph 6:11) and to ‘quench all the flaming darts of the evil one’ (Eph 6:16).” 162

Good is stronger than evil: “Along this journey, the cultivation of all that is good, progress in the spiritual life and growth in love are the best counterbalance to evil.” 163

The need for discernment: “How can we know if something comes from the Holy Spirit or if it stems from the spirit of the world or the spirit of the devil? The only way is through discernment, which calls for something more than intelligence or common sense.” 166

Discernment is a form of spiritual combat: “Discernment is necessary not only at extraordinary times, when we need to resolve grave problems and make crucial decisions. It is a means of spiritual combat for helping us to follow the Lord more faithfully. We need it at all times, to help us recognize God’s timetable.” 169

The link of the spiritual and human sciences: “Certainly, spiritual discernment does not exclude existential, psychological, sociological or moral insights drawn from the human sciences. At the same time, it transcends them.” 170

“An essential condition for progress in discernment is a growing understanding of God’s patience and his timetable, which are never our own. God does not pour down fire upon those who are unfaithful (cf. Lk 9:54), or allow the zealous to uproot the tares growing among the wheat (cf. Mt 13:29).” 174

Saint Joseph, Model of the Hidden & Interior Life

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Saint Joseph, Model of the Hidden & Interior Life

by Fr. Maurice Meschler

Saint Joseph is called the most obscure among the saints. There is good reason for this remark. His exterior life passes along in obscurity, and his interior life, in which the saint is great and unique, is essentially darkness and shadow.

The exterior view of Saint Joseph’s life presents nothing extraordinary or striking. Nothing has come down to us of the early part of his life. A distinct outline of him is obtained only with the coming of Jesus. He is a descendant of the distinguished family of David, but it has no longer any prestige.

The greatest part of the saint’s life is passed in the little hill town of Nazareth, of very meager importance, not even mentioned in the Old Testament, and in regard to which people shrugged their shoulders as to whether anything worthwhile could originate there (John 1:46). Here, too, the saint does not seem to have held a public office. He was merely known as the carpenter, an occupation in which fame had never before come to anyone. His particular and personal vocation to be the foster father of the Messiah, exalted and sublime in itself and without compare, was the very reason that demanded the profoundest obscurity.

St. Joseph’s Vocation

The prophets, the Apostles, and the martyrs proclaimed the divinity of Jesus and were rewarded with distinction and glory. Saint Joseph’s vocation, as long as he lived, was to hide this divinity. He was the shadow of the heavenly Father, not only in the sense that he was the visible representative of the eternal Father in regard to Jesus, but because under the guise of a natural fatherhood he concealed the divinity of the Son.

According to his vocation, then, Saint Joseph is essentially a shadow, which, like an ordinary shadow, passing noiselessly over the earth and covering everything it meets, conceals his Son, Jesus, and even the marvels of his spouse, Mary, her virginity and divine motherhood. The saint throws himself heart and soul into this unique vocation of placing the mantle of obscurity over everything and during his whole life does not deny this vocation, even by a single word. He wishes to be hidden and to remain so. With what revelations could he not have startled the world concerning his virginal spouse, who was the object of important prophecies of old, and the hope of his people?

He sheltered the ardently longed-for Messiah in his tent and yet did not mention a single word about His presence there. The revelations that from time to time light up the infancy of Christ and His person do not come from Joseph. He is only the mute, but interior admirer, “his secret to himself ” (Isa. 24:16)! He takes his secret to the grave. He had long disappeared from the scene by the time Jesus wrought His wonders and rose from the tomb, and suddenly transformed the terrible Passion into a reign of glory.

Even in the development of the Church the saint was obliged to remain a long time in the shadow, until the day of recompense came in the universal recognition of his merits. Such is the wonderful vocation of Saint Joseph, to be a shadow, to cast a shadow over himself and over all about him and over God Himself.

The Hidden Life

The exterior life of the saint is altogether unobtrusive and retiring. But this was not sufficient; the hidden life must needs be an interior life also. In this capacity alone does it fit in with Saint Joseph’s office. For his vocation was precisely to be the protector and defender of the hidden life of Jesus. This life was essentially an interior life. Hence, no other saint but an interior one and one who cultivated the interior life could be the defense and protection of the Savior’s hidden life.

The hidden life is the spiritual and nobler part of a human life, and elevates man to a more exalted and sublime position in human existence than a man’s exterior allows us to perceive. The hidden and interior life consists in the participation of the soul, that is, of the inner, spiritual faculties of man, in external affairs, but with a higher, supernatural motive that makes it ever aspire unto God. It is the life of a man from God, for God, and in God.

Therefore, to sum up, the inner life consists above all in purity of heart and freedom from whatever can render us spiritually repulsive and displeasing to God; hence the avoidance of all deliberate and voluntary sin with the accompanying care of and attention to our interior life. Further, the inner life consists in the diligent effort to transform our exterior works into virtue, supernatural virtue, and meritorious activity in God’s sight by means of a supernatural motive and good intention. Finally, it consists in the practice of the most intimate union with God by prayer at definitely appointed times and by docility to God’s inspirations. Such is, practically, the interior life, and such, too, must have been Saint Joseph’s interior life.

How glorious must have been this interior life for Saint Joseph! Who can grasp or comprehend it? We may come nearer to an appreciation of it by a consideration of his vocation and office and of the graces granted to him by God in appropriate measure.

The Richness of St. Joseph

If Mary obtained such an abundance and such a treasury of graces from the first moment of her existence on earth so that she might become a worthy Mother of God, then, too, Saint Joseph must have received the corresponding apportionment of grace for his office, which in a way approached that of our Blessed Lady. This fund of grace, however, depended entirely on the development of the saint’s interior life; indeed, the more modest and retiring the external activities of Saint Joseph were, the more abundant was the increase of his treasury of interior graces.

Surely the circumstances of the saint’s life, such as the continual example of our Savior and of the Mother of God, and his intimate companionship with them, could not have been more propitious for the fostering of the interior life. How great must have been the purity of his thoughts, designs, and aspirations, since, like an angel in the vision of the thrice-holy God, he constantly dwelled and moved in the presence of our Lord!

How profound and impressive his recollections in all his exterior actions, since his whole life and all his efforts were an undivided service of God and were dedicated to the promotion of the most exalted designs and counsels of God! How ardent the love that was stored away in his heart! How could it be otherwise, since all that happened round about him, what he saw and heard, was a manifestation of the most marvelous mysteries of God’s love, unheard-of sources of grace, and revelations of the divine wisdom and beauty itself!

As the moon enters a cloud and transfigures it with its light, so must Saint Joseph, who had sunk his whole being into God, have shone interiorly with the divine effulgence itself.

Patron of the Interior Life

Saint Joseph, therefore, from the fact that he was completely given to the interior life, is a patron of this life unsurpassed by any other. He was not a light beaming into our eyes, but was rather an all-pervading fragrance which all who come near it perceive without knowing its source. And so the fragrance of his interior virtues, as the model of the interior life, continues to pervade the Church of God.

 

This article is from The Truth about Saint Joseph.

Such was his personal greatness, and such it had to be. What in reality would he have been without this interior life, but an empty, passing shadow, a mere nothing before God and man, like the rich and great ones of earth, of whom Holy Scripture says that on awaking they “found nothing in their hands” (Ps. 75:6). Saint Joseph was rich before God in his hidden life.

Such is truly the manner of God’s greatness itself. God is hidden, silent, interior, and invisible to us just because He is God and is therefore infinitely happy in and through Himself. We participate in this greatness of God by entering into the interior life, which is essentially a life for God and in God.

In this life dwells purity of heart because of intimate converse with God, the mirror of purity; in this life are true riches, because what we do is done for God and becomes pure gold for eternity. In this life, strength of soul abounds because grace, which springs from this union with God, is able to conquer the dangers and difficulties of the exterior life.

Let us enter upon the way of the interior life under the guidance of Saint Joseph, by practicing it faithfully, by a calm attention to our interior advancement, by a persevering renewal of a good intention in all our actions, by the practice of prayer and docility to the interior inspirations of God. Without the practice of the interior life, the most hidden life would remain a merely external existence without value and meaning for God and eternity.

There is no better guide to the promised land of the interior life than Saint Joseph. To be a citizen of and a great man in this kingdom is the particular property of our saint’s holiness and the rich reward he merited by his services during the infancy of Jesus.

Editor’s note: This article is an excerpt from The Truth about St. Joseph: Encountering the Most Hidden of Saintswhich is available from Sophia Institute Press

Culture of Life: Aftershocks

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Culture of Life: Aftershocks

Terra firma. If you’ve ever rocked at sea or bounced your way through those big billowy gray clouds, you instinctively know what the words mean. We were born to walk, not to swim or fly, so the solid earth gives us comfort. On it, we can move safely and freely.

But sometimes the terra isn’t so firma. The reason lies in the earth’s curve. Because the earth is not flat, its crust—the surface on which we live—is made of massive plates that very slowly but constantly shift. When the plates collide, they exert pressures on each other. At times, the pressures are enough to cause sudden shifts, sometimes very minor, but at other times very major. These shifts are earthquakes, our geological terrorists. In an instant, all we thought was safe no longer is. The ground literally moves and shakes, rises and sinks, under our feet. The devastation in loss of human life and property can be enormous.

And with an earthquake, it may not be over when it’s over. When the rock under us moves, it begins to create pressures at other places. Because the new contact points are not always able to resist these tensions, another quake—or quakes—can occur. These are the aftershocks from the original quake. Generally, they occur close to the quake’s center, making rescue operations difficult and dangerous. Often they are of lesser intensity than the original quake, but they can be almost as intense. Many times they are short lived, but some have occurred months, years, decades, and even centuries later.

When God created mankind, He gave us minds and free wills, and because we need the help, He gave us consciences and rules of morality that we might live in peace and harmony with God and each other. Then He sent us on our way, with instructions to be fertile and multiply. It sounds simple enough, but because of our fallen nature, those gifts put pressures on each other—like with those plates in the earth’s crust. In the 20th century the contraception mentality took hold; fertility and childbearing became our enemies. Fears of overpopulation magnified the calls to reduce family sizes for the common good. Then came the sexual revolution with its call to “make love, not war.” The “love” had nothing to do with sacrificing self for the good of others. At the same time, the new feminist movement was demanding strict equality with men. If men couldn’t be forced to bear babies, then neither should women.

The pressures were too much to bear, and in January 1973, the earth moved—violently. Roe v. Wade hit with the force of an earthquake way off the Richter scale. Developing human beings could be legally killed, at any time and for any reason, before ever seeing the light of day. It’s been like that now for over 45 years. A culture at odds with life, a culture of death and even of killing, has taken firm hold.

Decades later, the alarming aftershocks from our failure to live as God instructs are still reverberating. As for overpopulation, the opposite is more true. The fertility rate to sustain human life at replacement levels is about is 2.1 children for every woman. The U.S. fertility rate is now around 1.77. Although immigrant fertility rates have traditionally boosted the U.S. rate, that trend appears to be over. The U.S. Census Bureau is now estimating that by 2035—not that far from now—seniors will outnumber children. It should be the other way around.

Currently, about 60 million lives have been lost because of legal abortion. Many millions more were never even conceived because of contraception. Whatever the combined total is, it’s having a huge economic impact on the lives of all of us. A key principle is at work here: sustained economic growth requires population growth. People have needs and wants. Babies need food, clothing, and diapers, lots of diapers. Over time, they need toys and books and school supplies—lots of them, too. They’ll want computers and headphones and cellphones, and more clothes, later a car, then a house, and on and on until their senior years. Our needs and wants create jobs and businesses to satisfy them—and that’s a good thing. But recently, Toys R Us went out of business. One reason was the declining birth rate. Less kids, less toys. Microsoft and Apple, take note: it’s heading your way.

Our pro-death culture creates other problems. When people work, they pay taxes on their income. Imagine how many billions, perhaps trillions, of tax dollars that would have been generated over the last 45 years by an additional 60+ million more workers. Taxes that would run governments and fund desperately needed programs, like assistance for the poor and the disabled. Programs like Social Security, which absolutely depends on contributions from younger people. Why is it in bad shape? More people are taking, not enough are contributing.

Those missing workers create another problem. People are our greatest assets. Who will be the workers of the future, the people who will provide for our wants and needs? Who will be the inventors and entrepreneurs? Who will be our religious, the people who tend to our spiritual needs? Scientists? Teachers? Poets? Doctors and nurses? We need to realize that we may have flushed the best of them down the toilet, or not let them even be conceived.

And with fewer people behind them, who will tend to the elderly, our parents and grandparents who gave so much for so long? Families with too few kids will be out-manned. More and more people will be put away to die. Think about those Obamacare death panels. The people pushing for them saw the coming problem. So should you.

In the meantime, we’re giving Planned Parenthood over $500 million annually. Our politicians—the ones for whom we vote—are literally funding our death spiral. How shortsighted can we be! So maybe God had it right when He said, “Be fertile and multiply.”

It wouldn’t be the first time.

Paul V. Esposito is a Catholic lawyer who writes on a variety of pro-life topics. He and his wife Kathy live in Elmhurst, Illinois and have six children.

Empathy is a Guide to Doing the Right Thing - Even When it Costs You

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Empathy is a Guide to Doing the Right Thing - Even When it Costs You

Many years ago, I happened to see a small segment of a movie my kids were watching on TV. The movie was Ruthless People with Judge Reinhold starring as a super-aggressive stereo salesman. I don't recall anything about that movie other than this one scene. A teenager comes waltzing into an electronics store looking for stereo speakers. Playing air guitar as he delivers his pitch, Reinhold talks the kid into buying a set of speakers the size of the Washington Monument.

Just as the young man is about to write what is probably the biggest check he's ever written, a very pregnant girl comes over and says to him, "Honey, I'm hungry, can we go now?" Looking at these young soon-to-be parents, the stereo salesman takes kid back over to the cheapest speakers in the store. "Trust me, kid," he says, "these are just what you need."

That was empathy in action. The salesman stopped seeing the kid as a commission check with legs, and instead saw a human being with real world responsibilities coming down the road.

Empathy is often not the easiest choice to make (in the case of our salesman, it cost a big commission check), but you must consciously decide to overcome your own ego, ambition, and prejudice (the very word implies pre-judgment) to see the other person as a real live human being - not a commission check with legs, a lost soul to be saved, a strange race to be hated, or an employee to be ordered around.

Just a real live human being deserving of love and consideration. Same as you.

 

Pope Emeritus Benedict: Only where God is seen does life truly begin

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It is really so: the purpose of our lives is to reveal God to men. And only where God is seen does life truly begin. Only when we meet the living God in Christ do we know what life is. We are not some casual and meaningless product of evolution. Each of us is the result of a thought of God. Each of us is willed, each of us is loved, each of us is necessary. There is nothing more beautiful than to be surprised by the Gospel, by the encounter with Christ. There is nothing more beautiful than to know Him and to speak to others of our friendship with Him. Homily of his holiness Benedict XVI. St. Peter’s Square Sunday, 24 April 2005.

St. Thérèse of Lisieux Every flower created by Him is beautiful

I understood that every flower created by Him is beautiful, that the brilliance of the rose and the whiteness of the lily do not lessen the perfume of the violet or the sweet simplicity of the daisy. I understood that if all the lowly flowers wished to be roses, nature would no longer be enamelled with lovely hues. And so it is in the world of souls, Our lord’s living garden.  Story of a Soul.
St. Thérèse of Lisieux 

 

 

Are You Allowing God to Prune You? How to Remain Attached to the True Vine

Gospel Reflection for the Fifth Sunday of Easter

Written By Fr. Gaetano Piccolo

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“He lost himself in dreams of what could have been had he just left; left without saying anything; left forever, without ever returning home again.” ~Pirandello

Who among us has not felt the urge to just run away and leave everything? This was the case with Mr. Bareggi, the protagonist in Luigi Pirandello’s novel entitled “Escape.” He jumped on the milkman’s horse and rode madly over the horizon only to be eventually thrown from the horse, at which point he finally realizes that his foolishness was driving him towards nothingness.

Perhaps this is the reason for Jesus’s passionate appeal to remain in Him, expressed in this passage of the Gospel. It makes me think that even the first Christian community must have suffered from this desire to just run away from everything.

We feel the need to flee when we are disappointed, when we see that things are not going the way we’d hoped. We want to leave when we feel excluded, when we feel we have nothing left to give. We want to break away when we’re angry, when we are faced with injustice.

Our age, like that in which Jesus lived, offers many reasons to leave: political confusion, the arrogance of power, intolerance in relationships, the incapacity of those in charge to listen to and value those they serve…

We live in a time when the Holy Spirit seems to have drawn back from the world. When I pray, I often return to an image: it’s as if Jesus has left me with the tools and has distanced Himself again.

In this Easter season, even Luke the Evangelist presents us with this experience of disappointment and fleeing: the two disciples of Emmaus, three days later, after having realized that things didn’t go according to their expectations, decided to leave.

When we are hit with deception and anger, we are pushed to break off all of our relationships without even realizing whom we are leaving behind. Looking closely, Jesus’s invitation is not an appeal to be passive but to remain connectedLove has nothing to do with the stubbornness of remaining unchanged, but requires the openness that allows the sap to flow from vine to branches. The branch can also appear to be attached to the vine, yet still not allow the sap to flow.

Jesus does not invite us to remain in a stubborn and headstrong passivity but invites us to remain in Him and to let Him remain in us. Jesus invites us to remain in a relationship: “without me you can do nothing.” Pushing the Latin translation a little further, J. Martain translated this expression as “without me you can do nothingness.” Without Jesus, our lives are caught up in a vortex of senselessness that we can only strive uselessly to fill.

What is certain is that life must also undergo pruning. Jesus does not deceive us by telling us that we will undergo a painless blossoming. Looking back on our own personal histories, we can see how moments of suffering and pain we have helped us grow. We live in a culture that refuses any type of pruning, any suffering, and that is why the younger generations are in danger of not blossoming at all. The adults, parents and educators, often fear the work of pruning. Blossoming only occurs after a period of bareness in which the plant appears helpless. But without pruning, the plant weakens and the risk is this: we are forming a generation of men and women that are fragile, that will be crushed under the weight of life.

Perhaps the Vine Grower, moved to pity by this grievous vineyard, will come and give us a hand!

Be Yourself, Everyone Else is Taken 

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Be Yourself, Everyone Else is Taken

by Wayne Lawson

Genesis 27:19-24 & 1 Samuel 17:37-50

I want to spend a few minutes this morning building this message about the importance of being you. As we continue to grow this ministry and define various leadership roles, I believe that it will be important for us to understand the value of simply being yourself and not focus upon anyone else, or attempt to be something that we are not. I challenge us this morning to understand the gifting that God has placed in you and operate in your gifting, simply be yourself, everyone else is taken. We run into many problems not only in Church but also in life in general when we never become comfortable with whom we are, and the great value we have to offer. We each have a treasure hidden in our lives that we take for granted and if we aren’t careful, we allow the enemy to rob us of the very thing God has entrusted to us. We have then, in essence, under-priced God’s precious gift to us.

I believe that God is calling us to take an assessment today and see if we have placed too low a price on the gifting that God has provided for us as Christians. Perhaps there is even a second question here – Have you short-changed your gift by trying to be like someone else? I have often heard over the years many Christians say they don’t have a gift or unsure as to the gift they have and how to operate in it. Let’s try to address all of these issues this morning.

Let’s run over and visit our initial text read in our hearing. As writer Frederick Beuchner pointed out in The Magnificent Defeat, “This was not a blessing in our sense of the word, a vague expression of goodwill that we might use when someone is going on a journey and we say, ‘God bless you.’ For Jacob the blessing is a word of great power. It conveys the very energy and vitality of the blesser’s soul into the one blessed. Just like Elijah when he was carried into heaven by chariots of fire. As he was taken up he dropped his mantle on his successor by the name of Elisha who then received a Double Portion of the Anointing. From that point Elisha would go out and do extraordinary things for God. So, this final blessing by Isaac of his son is to be the most powerful of all blessings. Let us also remember that once it is given it can never be taken back.

There was a rivalry between these twin brothers. The boys mother, Rebecca, would tell you it could be traced back right to the womb. When she was pregnant with them it was like WWF wrestling match going on inside her. It was so intense that she feared for her life and prayed to God about it. God said to her: “Two nations are in your womb, and two peoples born of you shall be divided; the one shall be stronger than the other, the elder shall serve the younger.” In other words, God was pronouncing blessing upon the youngest child in her womb. Now, that’s not the way it works in Hebrew culture – everyone knows that the first born is the preferred child, not the youngest! But God decreed it would be otherwise and Rebecca heard it.

In our text, we find the twins father, Isaac is advanced or old in age and his eyes have begun to dim. Old Man Isaac waits now for his eldest son, Esau, to appear. After awhile, he hears someone enter the tent and say, ‘my father’. “Who are you, my son?” The boy Jacob lies and says that he is Esau. He says it boldly. Isaac almost believes, but not completely. The weak-eyed father asks, ‘Are you really my son, Esau?’ The boy Jacob lies a second time. In the silence of that black, goatskin tent, Isaac reaches out both of his arms and says, ‘Come near and kiss me, my son.’ Let’s identify the first problem – Jacob’s hands are smooth. His brother’s hands are hairy. But the boys’ mother Rebecca is in on the whole thing with Jacob. She has covered the backs of Jacob’s hands with the hair of animals. Jacob stretches his hands into Isaac’s and Isaac is fully deceived. He blesses him saying, ‘See, the smell of my son is the smell of a field which the Lord has blessed.’ Then Isaac gave Jacob the great blessing. Jacob is now the recipient of the blessing that belongs to his brother and takes advantage of his own father’s blindness. Right here he has broken three of the Ten Commandments – “You shall not steal.” “You shall honor your father and mother,” “You shall not bear false witness.” Yes, I agree with you studious Bible readers, there was a fourth commandment violated as well – the one against coveting – however, this one had gone by the wayside years before.

Lest we be too harsh on Jacob, I have heard many Bible teachers and others claim that Jacob was a thief. But the Bible in the New Testament – HEBREWS 12:16 tells us plainly that Esau “FOR ONE MORSEL OF MEAT SOLD HIS BIRTHRIGHT” and in the Old Testament record GENESIS 25: 29-34 it states clearly that he “SOLD HIS BIRTHRIGHT UNTO JACOB” and bound the sale with an oath, for “ESAU DESPISED HIS BIRTHRIGHT.” The real Jacob is not the schemer – trickster nor is he perfect. Rather it is the journey of a man to become his best self. Jacob is our patriarch because of his journey, not despite it. When we consider our lot in life or our current position or status it is because of our Journey, not Despite it. Jacob is not many figures, but one – one with an intricate and complex character, but one, nonetheless. For us to understand who we are, we must understand Jacob’s struggle and how important it is that we can all identify with it.

• We all struggle with life choices

• We all regret some of the choices we have made

• We have all been on a journey, away from the name we feel we sometimes deserve, and towards the name we wish to deserve

• Inside each of us is Israel: the one who struggles with God

As did Jacob, we too, can become Israel if we grow and learn from our mistakes, and journey to be our best selves

So we see in Jacob a tragic flaw from the offset. He believed if he was going to get ahead in this life he was going to have to hustle and strive and be knifing – even if it meant hustling his own brother. And the strange irony of it all is that Jacob didn’t need to hustle. God had already promised him this blessing. While he was still in the womb God proclaimed to Rebeccah that the younger one would be the blessed one. And when you have God’s blessing what more do you need? The problem was that Jacob didn’t believe it – even though he must have heard it many times from his mother while working alongside her, but he still didn’t believe it.

• All he could see was Esau – the strong one

• All he could see was Esau — the popular one

• All he could see was Esau — the first born

• All he could see was Esau — the skilled hunter

• All he could see was Esau — the preferred one of his father and the rest of the world

• He figured the only way he’d ever be blessed would be to steal it from Esau

I wonder how many of us are like Jacob, always watching somebody else, coveting their gift in spite of the gift God has given us. Esau is pictured as a self-centered, irresponsible man, caring far more for sports than for the responsibilities that come with being an adult. He did not want to be saddled with the responsibility of family affairs and business. Jacob was the exact opposite of Esau. Jacob was a mature, quiet, settled man who looked after the affairs and responsibilities of the family. He stayed right with the tents, the workers, herds, and affairs of the family. It is unfortunate that they were not able to embrace their differences and work together. This is how it is within the church at times. If we are not careful we begin to watch what everybody else is doing and then desire to be like them instead of embracing what God has given us. I am always concerned when I travel and visit smaller churches and they have 50 members and 20 of them are in the pulpit. It is usually a clear indication of a church that does not understand the importance of embracing the various giftings that operate within each of us – I like to encourage them to be yourself, everyone else is taken.

Being who you are is the most natural thing there is and takes less effort than trying to be someone that you are not. I may never preach like T.D. Jakes, but that is okay, I am not T.D. Jakes, I may never teach like Creflo Dollar, but that’s okay, I am not Creflo Dollar. I many never speak before tens of thousands like Billy Graham, but that is okay, I am not Billy Graham. All too often, in the church, we spend too much time trying to be like somebody else. I am glad I am who I am, and there is no one else just like me.

Jacob wasted 20 years of his life hiding from his brother – simply because he wanted to be like his brother. In spite of what God had already promised him while he was still in the womb, Jacob could not take his eyes off of being like his brother. It would ultimately cost him years of frustration. He would never see his mother alive again, not even able to attend her funeral in an attempt to add closure. You see my brothers and sisters; it is not worth it in the long run – be yourself, everyone else is taken.

David understood this at a very early age. When we consider the life of King David, we can really understand the value of Being Yourself. David would become the most loved and respected King that ruled over God’s people. Here it is thousands of years later and we are still talking about his life and what he accomplished. Unlike Jacob, David had more than just one brother to contend with. David was the eighth and youngest son of Jesse from the kingly tribe of Judah.

The biblical King David of Israel was known for his diverse skills as both a warrior and a writer of psalms. In his 40 years as ruler, between approximately 1010 and 970 B.C.E., he united the people of Israel, led them to victory in battle, conquered land and paved the way for his son, Solomon, to build the Holy Temple. But most of us really don’t understand what it was that bought David before King Saul. We don’t know what his gifting was that moved him to become the most prominent King in history. His first interaction with Saul came when the king was looking for someone to play music for him, and the king’s attendant summoned the skilled David to play for him. Saul was pleased with David and kept him in his service as a musician.

It was not his courage or his leadership that bought him before the King. David was gifted as a skilled musician. Apparently someone had heard David play various instruments and it was that Gift that bought him before the King. Could you imagine if David had been more concerned about trying to be like his brothers. David appreciated what God had placed in him. My brothers and sisters, I really think that is key – we must learn how to appreciate what God has imparted unto us. When we learn how to appreciate our gift, it is only then that God will be able to move us into another realm – just be yourself, everyone else is taken. We all know that David would come to prominence because of the battle that was brewing between the Israelites and the Philistines. There was a giant in the land by the name of Goliath. The Philistine Army was the most feared of any in the Ancient Near East. Their superior armaments during the middle of the eleventh century, BCE, enabled them to threaten Judea. They had already colonized areas along the coastline. So, here we have Goliath the Philistine of Gath, a giant, who is nine feet tall and a champion warrior. No one in the army of Israel really wants to face up to such a giant. The entire Israelite army, including King Saul, was filled full of fear and felt defeated before they even considered facing such a giant. It didn’t help matters much when Goliath took advantage of every opportunity to verbally insult them and the LORD God. What were they to do?

David the musician shows up and stands before King Saul. After a conversation King Saul sends this boy David out to fight against the giant. He then attempts to equip David for his encounter with the giant. Saul clothes David with his own armor. He puts a bronze helmet on David’s head and clothes David with his own big coat of mail. David straps Saul’s sword over the armor. Then David tries to take a step. He quickly realizes that he had not earned any of that equipment. He quickly remembers the Gift that he has – the gift beyond being a Musician. David remembers that he is good at throwing rocks. That is the gift that David had which ultimately would bring him before the King and set him on the path of his destiny. We know the rest of the story; he would be victorious over the giant.

What would cause David to walk in his Destiny is the fact that he understood his gift was Throwing Rocks. What a strange gift to have. We must identify the Gift that God has given us and understand no matter how big or small we think that gifting is — to simply operate in it. We read in PROVERBS 18:16 A MAN’S GIFT MAKETH ROOM FOR HIM, AND BRINGETH HIM BEFORE GREAT MEN. This strange gift of throwing rocks would usher David into his destiny – it would bring him face to face before King Saul because he was Gifted at Throwing Rocks. I don’t know about you but I am glad today that David was comfortable with who he was, he understood how important it was to be yourself, everyone else is taken.

• If my gift is throwing rocks – I’ll throw Rocks in Jesus name

• If my gift is Playing Instruments – I’ll play in Jesus name

• If my gift is serving on the Usher Board – I’ll serve in Jesus name

Whatever my gift is, I’ll wait, because God promised my gift will make room for me and take me to great places.

Paul understood this when he talked and counseled with a young preacher by the name of Timothy. Paul would go on to tell Timothy that he would grow to be a great preacher one day and then gave him sound advise according to I TIMOTHY 4:14 NEGLECT NOT THE GIFT THAT IS IN THEE, WHICH WAS GIVEN THEE BY PROPHECY, WITH THE LAYING ON OF HANDS OF THE PRESBYTERY.

— Your gift will take you to places you never dreamed

— Your gift will elevate you in due season

— Don’t neglect the gift that God has given you

— Don’t set your sight on what others have and are doing

— Allow God to continue to grow the gift that He has placed with you

Great Thoughts On The Call To Holiness

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Great Thoughts On The Call To Holiness

To be holy does not require being a bishop, a priest or a religious. We are frequently tempted to think that holiness is only for those who can withdraw from ordinary affairs to spend much time in prayer. That is not the case. We are all called to be holy by living our lives with love and by bearing witness in everything we do, wherever we find ourselves. Are you called to the consecrated life? Be holy by living out your commitment with joy. Are you married? Be holy by loving and caring for your husband or wife, as Christ does for the Church. Do you work for a living? Be holy by labouring with integrity and skill in the service of your brothers and sisters. Are you a parent or grandparent? Be holy by patiently teaching the little ones how to follow Jesus. Are you in a position of authority? Be holy by working for the common good and renouncing personal gain.[14]

15. Let the grace of your baptism bear fruit in a path of holiness. Let everything be open to God; turn to him in every situation. Do not be dismayed, for the power of the Holy Spirit enables you to do this, and holiness, in the end, is the fruit of the Holy Spirit in your life (cf. Gal 5:22-23). When you feel the temptation to dwell on your own weakness, raise your eyes to Christ crucified and say: “Lord, I am a poor sinner, but you can work the miracle of making me a little bit better”. In the Church, holy yet made up of sinners, you will find everything you need to grow towards holiness. The Lord has bestowed on the Church the gifts of scripture, the sacraments, holy places, living communities, the witness of the saints and a multifaceted beauty that proceeds from God’s love, “like a bride bedecked with jewels” (Is 61:10).

16. This holiness to which the Lord calls you will grow through small gestures. Here is an example: a woman goes shopping, she meets a neighbour and they begin to speak, and the gossip starts. But she says in her heart: “No, I will not speak badly of anyone”. This is a step forward in holiness. Later, at home, one of her children wants to talk to her about his hopes and dreams, and even though she is tired, she sits down and listens with patience and love. That is another sacrifice that brings holiness. Later she experiences some anxiety, but recalling the love of the Virgin Mary, she takes her rosary and prays with faith. Yet another path of holiness. Later still, she goes out onto the street, encounters a poor person and stops to say a kind word to him. One more step.

APOSTOLIC EXHORTATION
GAUDETE ET EXSULTATE
OF THE HOLY FATHER
FRANCIS
ON THE CALL TO HOLINESS
IN TODAY’S WORLD

Pope Francis Issues Lengthy Apostolic Exhortation on Universal Call to Holiness

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Pope Francis Issues Lengthy Apostolic Exhortation on Universal Call to Holiness

In Gaudete et Exsultate, the Holy Father offers guidance on the many paths to sanctity in today’s world.

Edward Pentin

Pope Francis has issued a long apostolic exhortation on holiness in today’s world, in which he emphasizes the universal call to sanctity, highlights the pitfalls to achieving it, and recalls that the Christian life is one of constant battle against the devil and the forces of evil.

Running at just over 22,000 words, Gaudete et Exsultate (Rejoice and Be Glad) — The Call to Holiness in Today’s World — contains many themes the Holy Father has repeated over the past five years: an emphasis on the importance of discernment, warnings against Gnosticism and neo-Pelagianism, rigidity, doing things as they have always been done, an excessive emphasis on doctrine, and gossip.

He quotes the late Jesuit Cardinal Carlo Maria Martini and the Swiss theologian Hans Urs Von Balthasar in the text, but also draws on the example of many saints, including St. Bonaventure, St. Francis of Assisi and St. Anthony of Padua, and singles out women saints such as St. Hildegard of Bingen, St Bridget and St. Catherine of Siena.

The document is rich in guidance on how to answer the call to holiness in a world filled with distractions, consumerism and hedonism. Frequently, the Pope stresses the importance of prayer and worship, but gives greater emphasis to acts of love and mercy toward one’s neighbor, especially the poor and those on the periphery. 

In one particularly notable section, the Pope stresses that “equally sacred” to defending the lives of the unborn are the lives of the poor, the elderly exposed to “covert euthanasia” and those facing “every form of rejection.”

As with every apostolic exhortation or letter, the document begins with its title: “Rejoice and be glad” — Jesus’ words to those persecuted or humiliated for his sake.

“The Lord asks everything of us, and in return he offers us true life, the happiness for which we were created,” the Pope begins. “He wants us to be saints and not to settle for a bland and mediocre existence,” and he reminds the faithful that the call to holiness “is present in various ways from the very first pages of the Bible.”

In light of this, the Pope says his “modest goal” is to “re-propose the call to holiness in a practical way for our own time, with all its risks, challenges and opportunities. For the Lord has chosen each one of us ‘to be holy and blameless before him in love.’”

The first chapter outlines the essence of the call to holiness. The Pope stresses that the Holy Spirit “bestows holiness in abundance among God’s holy and faithful people,” not just the beatified, canonized, prelates, clergy or religious, but the “saints next door” — “the middle class of holiness.” Often, he says, holiness is shown through patience, such as parents who raise their children “with immense love” or “work hard” to support their families.  

Besides making the point that holiness exists “even outside the Catholic Church,” he says that each believer has to “discern” his or her own path to sanctity and that St. John of the Cross “preferred to avoid hard and fast rules for all.” He also stresses the “genius of woman” seen in “feminine styles of holiness,” witnessed especially in times of history when “women tended to be most ignored or overlooked” and whose sanctity led to “important reforms” in the Church.

Holiness is not restricted to those who “spend much time in prayer,” he goes on, and argues that it is “not healthy to love silence while fleeing interaction with others, to want peace and quiet while avoiding activity, to seek prayer while disdaining service.”

Instead, the Pope stresses that the call to holiness can also be answered through “small gestures,” such as refusal to succumb to the temptation to gossip. “Holiness is nothing other than charity lived to the full,” he adds, and “giving your best” in committing yourself “body and soul.”

Distractions and Gadgets

He notes the constant distractions of “new gadgets,” travel and consumerism, asking how we can “stop this rat race” and recover the personals space for “heartfelt dialogue with God.” Quoting Cardinal Martini, he says finding that space may not happen unless “we see ourselves staring into the abyss of a frightful temptation, or have the dizzying sensation of standing on the precipice of utter despair, or find ourselves completely alone and abandoned.”

As he has said before, the Pope calls on the faithful not to be “afraid of holiness” and adds that “to the extent that each Christian grows in holiness, he or she will bear greater fruit for our world.”

He highlights two “subtle enemies” of sanctity — gnosticism and pelagianism. Although the Pope says Placuit Deo, a document on the subject by the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith issued in February, provides the “doctrinal bases” for these heresies, he broadens the definitions considerably, saying gnostics today “judge others based on their ability to understand the complexity of certain doctrines.” They also “reduce Jesus’ teaching to a cold and harsh logic that seeks to dominate everything.”

“When somebody has an answer for every question, it is a sign that they are not on the right road,” he says. “They may well be false prophets, who use religion for their own purposes, to promote their own psychological or intellectual theories.” He also warns against believing that knowledge of doctrine makes one “perfect and better than the ‘ignorant masses.’”

On contemporary pelagianism, the Pope warns against telling the weak that “all things can be accomplished with God’s grace” while giving the idea that “all things are possible by the human will” and failing to realize “that ‘not everyone can do everything.’” The “new pelagians,” he continues, have an “obsession with the law,” a “punctilious concern for the Church’s liturgy, doctrine and prestige,” and “give excessive importance to certain rules,” rather than wishing to spread the “beauty and joy of the Gospel and seeking out the lost.”

“May the Lord set the Church free from these new forms of gnosticism and pelagianism that weigh her down and block her progress along the path to holiness!” he says.

In Chapter 3, the Pope recalls Jesus’ Sermon on the Mount in showing the way towards holiness. In a sub-chapter entitled “Going Against the Flow,” he lists each of the beatitudes, highlighting that holiness is manifested in being poor of heart, meekness and humility, knowing how to mourn with others, yearning for righteousness, keeping a heart free of all that tarnishes love, sowing peace, and accepting the path of slander and lies — the modern persecution of today.

In a further subchapter called “The Great Criterion,” the Pope underlines the importance of imitating the Good Samaritan, but warns against ideologies such as those which view some social-justice work “as superficial, worldly, secular, materialist, communist or populist.”

“Our defense of the innocent unborn, for example, needs to be clear, firm and passionate,” he says. “Equally sacred, however, are the lives of the poor, those already born, the destitute, the abandoned and the underprivileged, the vulnerable infirm and elderly exposed to covert euthanasia, the victims of human trafficking, new forms of slavery, and every form of rejection.”

He also criticizes some Catholics who often view the situation of migrants as “a secondary issue” compared to “the ‘grave’ bioethical questions,” and he cites scriptural references underlining the importance of welcoming the stranger.  

Again, the Pope stresses the importance of acts of mercy, saying that although “primacy belongs to our relationship with God,” one should not “forget that the ultimate criterion on which our lives will be judged is what we have done for others.”

Dangers of Hedonism and Consumerism

He also warns against “hedonism and consumerism,” which “can prove our downfall” and lead to our being “too concerned about ourselves and our rights.” The answer, he says, is to “cultivate a certain simplicity of life, resisting the feverish demands of a consumer society.”

He lists five “great expressions” of love for God and neighbor that will make us “genuinely happy” as perseverance, patience and meekness; joy and a sense of humor; boldness and passion; being in community; and constant prayer.

The last chapter is given to spiritual combat, and he reminds the faithful that the Christian life “is a constant battle,” but adds that this battle “is sweet, for it allows us to rejoice each time the Lord triumphs in our lives.” He also stresses that this battle is not just against “the world and a worldly mentality” or “human weakness,” but “a constant struggle against the devil.”

The devil is not “a myth,” he says, adding that he “does not need to possess us,” but simply “poisons us with the venom of hatred, desolation, envy and vice.” Those who fail to realize it is a constant battle “will be prey to failure or mediocrity,” he adds, stressing that the Lord has given us “powerful weapons” to fight the devil such as “faith-filled prayer, meditation on the word of God, the celebration of Mass, Eucharistic adoration, sacramental reconciliation, works of charity, community life, missionary outreach.”

He goes on to warn against “spiritual corruption,” which he describes as a “comfortable and self-satisfied form of blindness” where all appears acceptable: “deception, slander, egotism and other subtle forms of self-centredness, for even Satan disguises himself as an angel of light.”

Pope Francis ends by returning to his common theme of discernment, which he says is “something more than intelligence or common sense.” It is a gift, he says, which we must implore and seek to develop through prayer, reflection, reading and good counsel.

“Discernment is necessary not only at extraordinary times,” he says, adding that only if we are prepared to listen do we have the freedom to set aside our own partial or insufficient ideas, our usual habits and ways of seeing things.

“Naturally, this attitude of listening entails obedience to the Gospel,” he says, but it is “not a matter of applying rules or repeating what was done in the past, since the same solutions are not valid in all circumstances and what was useful in one context may not prove so in another.”

“The discernment of spirits liberates us from rigidity, which has no place before the perennial “today” of the Risen Lord,” the Pope says.

The Pope closes the document, released on the Solemnity of the Annunciation, which was transferred to today due to Palm Sunday, by asking that these reflections “be crowned by Mary, because she lived the beatitudes of Jesus as none other” and because she “teaches us the way of holiness and she walks ever at our side.”

Looking out only for oneself is not the way to fulfillment

Looking out only for oneself is not the way to fulfillment

Gospel reflection for the Fifth Sunday of Easter

Father Bernard Podvin 

April 28, 2018

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For the last 14 years, it has been my duty to train future priests. I am reminded of the spiritual paths of some of the candidates for the priestly ministry by this Sunday’s gospel reading.

I might have one highly talented seminarian who seemed to have a brilliant future before him, but whose vocation never reached a deep connection with Jesus.

Conversely, there might be another who seemed, on the surface, less talented but whose humble spiritual devotion to the Lord inspired great pastoral engagement.

The problem for the first seminarian was an inability to fully surrender to the Lord and the church, and therefore he grew weary quickly from lack of energy and inspiration.

The humility of the second allowed God’s will to work through him, and thus he could fulfill the needs of his community.

What is said about the vine in John this Easter season beams with the light of truth.

“Apart from me you can do nothing!” We can understand why Pope Francis emphasizes the great danger for Christ’s followers to rely solely on themselves.

Looking out only for oneself is not the way to fulfillment. Instead, we must give ourselves to be guided, for the benefit of the whole.

Jesus says: “I am the true vine, and my Father is the gardener!” It is thus for the Father to knows the hearts of humankind better than any other.

Let us sketch three spiritual lessons that can inform our prayers for guidance in our spiritual lives.

First, the vine shoot alone cannot bear fruit. The 17th century Jesuit Jean-Joseph Surin said “The error of many good people is to act alone, and not seek help from grace.”

It is a difficult trap to avoid, because one’s intentions are laudable, but they cannot bear fruit.

Second, it is up to the Father to decide who has borne fruit and who has not. This is an important measure of spiritual deferral. It protects us from the risk of ideologizing evangelization.

Indeed, who are we to say whether our brothers are true in their acts and words? Only the gardener truly knows what is good for humankind.

Not only does he measure his fruit wisely, but his glory lies in appointing us to go and bear fruit too.

Third, we must let ourselves be shaped and pruned by the force of his Love in order that we can carry forth the crop that God has produced.

This third point calls on us to cultivate patience, humility, self mastery, benevolence towards our fellow humans, and to listen deeply to God.

No one reaches perfection instantly, and no one is exempt from being guided and pruned if the gardener sees the potential to sprout new shoots.

On the Lord’s vine, there is no place for rigidity nor hopelessness. God knows the true potential of each vine shoot, beyond what it might appear to have.

François de Sales liked to remind us that pruning is not done “by swinging an axe, but gently with a billhook, branch by branch.” This is the way of the gardener.

Saints have the gift of translating God’s attitude towards mankind, because they have let themselves be shaped and pruned, little by little, with unshakable confidence in Him.

This is the kind of holiness that Pope Francis spoke of in his recent exhortation. It is to do with having the confidence that anything can come to those who live in Christ and are grafted onto Christ.

Let us wish that our Christian communities may live out this missionary grace. To be a living communion of shoots that allow themselves to be guided and grow as God sees fit.

Marthe Robin called on us “not to remain on the edges of our souls.” Christ beckons us. We cannot offer love unless we draw on love!

Keeping Our Loved Ones Connected to The Body of Christ

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KEEPING OUR LOVED ONES CONNECTED TO THE BODY OF CHRIST

A friend of mine, in his early forties, is the kind of person you want as a friend. Honest, gracious, generous to a fault, kindhearted, full of humor, he brings color and character into a room. But, although he’s loved by many people inside the church, he struggles with the church. Partly it’s indifference, partly it’s lack of faith, partly it’s because of how he perceives the church’s teaching on sex, and partly it’s because he grew up inside a generation that, for whatever reason, was never properly initiated into the church. Whatever the reasons, he rarely goes to church and feels himself an outsider to its life.

Until recently he didn’t think much about this. He was young and life was full of opportunities, friends, and things to experience and enjoy. Church and religion didn’t seem important to him.

But now that he’s seen enough of life to recognize some its empty crevices and its incapacity to deliver the happiness he’d hoped for, he’s more humble and even a bit sad about his weak relationship to faith and the church. When we talked about religion recently he simply said: “I’m not sure what I really believe, but, that’s me, that’s where I’m at.” Then, with a note of sadness, he added: “I guess if there’s a heaven, I won’t be part of it.”

Knowing the wonderful gift that he is to so many people, but without turning an eye from his shortcomings, I didn’t hesitate to give him this assurance: “Don’t worry about heaven. You’ll be there! Too many of us love you! A lot of us, church people, including me, won’t accept a heaven that doesn’t have you in it.”

My heaven will include you! Can we say that? Is this wishful thinking? Fanciful thought? Bad theology?

It may be wishful thinking, but it’s not fanciful, or bad theology. It’s part of the miracle, the mystery, and the unimaginable wonder of the incarnation.

As Christians, we believe that God took on flesh in Jesus, but we also believe that this was not just a one-shot, 33-year incursion, of God into human history. The mystery of the incarnation goes on. God is still taking on real flesh inside of us, the community of believers.

Scripture says: “We ARE the Body of Christ on earth.” We’re not a replacement for Jesus’ body, not a representation of it, or even his mystical body. We ARE his body and, as such, are meant to do all the things he did, including the forgiveness of sins and the binding of each other, through love, to the family of God.

Jesus himself gave us this power: “Whose sins you shall forgive, they are forgiven. … Whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven; whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven.”

Those statements, among others, have immense, almost unimaginable, implications. As a family of faith, we continue to give physical flesh to God on earth and so, like Jesus, have the power to forgive and to link anyone who is sincere to the family of God. Simply put, this means that we can link those we love (our children, our siblings, our friends, our colleagues, and anyone who is sincere) to salvation, to heaven, to the family that shares God’s table. We can say to God: “My heaven includes those I love!”

Stated in reverse, if, as members of the Body of Christ, we love someone, that person cannot go to hell unless he or she positively rejects our love and our efforts to connect him or her to the family of God. He or she must, of course, at some point, still make a personal choice to belong, but as long as our love is there, that person is solidly connected to the Body of Christ.

Partly this is mystery but partly we understand it from our experience of love and family. Inside of a family, we do not judge who’s in and who’s out simply by who’s home and at table on a given day. Love understands, forgives, and holds others in union in ways that take into account weakness, hurt, complexity, absence, and even sin. A loving mother knows that the family still includes a given child, even if that person is struggling in ways that don’t allow for him or her to be home and at the family table on a given night. Love binds, looses, forgives, and holds others in union even within the painful contingencies of immaturity, absence, anger, infidelity, and sin.

Every time I write about this, I’m flooded with letters, mostly from people who find it incredulous. Some object because, as they put it: “Only Christ can do this!” Point well taken, but, as scripture says: “We are the body of Christ.” Christ is doing this. More commonly the doubt expresses itself this way: “I’d like to believe this, but, if it’s true, it’s too good to be true!”

That’s simply a description of the incarnation!

‘Heaven Is Not Boring,’ Says Pope at Morning Mass

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‘Heaven Is Not Boring,’ Says Pope at Morning Mass

Reminds Heaven Is Place of Eternal Joy Where We Meet Jesus & Are Happy Forever

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Heaven is not boring!

According to Vatican News, Pope Francis stressed this during his daily morning Mass at Casa Santa Marta as he reflected on how Christians journey on earth toward heaven.

Heaven, he highlighted, is the place of eternal joy as it is where we are welcomed by and encounter Jesus.

The Pontiff reflected on the First Reading taken from the Acts of the Apostles, where Paul tells the Jews that the inhabitants of Jerusalem and their religious leaders did not recognize Jesus, condemned Him to death, but that after being crucified, was raised from the dead.

The Holy Father encouraged us Christians to walk with the promise of God in our hearts.

“We, too, are in movement along the path. When asked where we are heading, we say, ‘Towards heaven!’ ‘So what’s heaven?’ some ask. There we begin to be unsure in our response. We don’t know how best to explain heaven.”

Francis observed that many “picture an abstract and distant heaven.”

“And some think: ‘But won’t it be boring there for all eternity?’ No! That is not heaven. We are on the path towards an encounter: the final meeting with Jesus. Heaven is the encounter with Jesus.”

I am traveling in life to meet Jesus … which will make us happy forever

During our everyday lives, the Pope stressed, we must remind ourselves “I am traveling in life to meet Jesus.” This meeting, he said, will make us happy forever.

“But what does Jesus do in the meantime?” the Pope asked.

Jesus, he said, is working for us and praying for us. The Pope reminded that at the Last Supper, Jesus promises Peter He will pray for him.

“Each of us must say: ‘Jesus is praying for me, working to prepare me a place.’ He is faithful. He does so because he has promised it. Heaven will be this encounter, this meeting with the Lord who went ahead to prepare a place for each of us. This increases our faith.”

Jesus, the Pope said, is “the priestly intercessor, right up to the end of the world. “

Pope Francis concluded, giving the following advice: “May the Lord give us the awareness of walking along a path with this promise. May the Lord give us the grace to look upwards toward heaven and think: ‘The Lord is praying for me.’”

The 6-word definition of Mary that explains everything

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The 6-word definition of Mary that explains everything

 Ellen Mady | Apr 27, 2018

One of Rome's most popular shrines is about to get a papal visit. And pilgrims leave there knowing one thing for sure.

Pope Francis is about to open the month of May with a visit to the Shrine of Our Lady of Divine Love. He is following the footsteps of his two recent predecessors in reminding us that this particular shrine holds a special place in Rome’s heart. Pope John Paul II visited the shrine on May 1, 1979, and Pope Benedict XVI did the same 27 years later, on May 1, 2006.

The sanctuary of Our Lady of Divine Love is a little off the beaten path, but well worth a stop whenever you find yourself in the Eternal City. If you want to have the full experience of a pilgrimage to Our Lady of Divine Love, which entails walking about nine miles, give yourself a full day, or join one of the many all-night vigil pilgrim walks to the shrine that happen throughout the year.

Pilgrims often start out at the Piazza di Porta Capena, a southern gateway to Rome, and walk along the Via Appia Antigua (Old Appian Way) until reaching the Quo Vadis Church. This small place of worship marks the site where St. Peter, fleeing from Roman persecution, allegedly met the Lord and asked him, “Lord, where are you going?” Jesus answered, “I am going to Rome to be crucified again.” Upon hearing this response, Peter turned around and returned to Rome, where he himself was then martyred by being crucified upside down. After seeing the Quo Vadis site, you would walk a few more miles along the Via Ardeantina to reach the Shrine of Sancte Marie de Divino Amore, or Our Lady of Divine Love.

As Pope Benedict wrote in Deus Caritas Est, and reiterated in his 2006 address at Our Lady of Divine Love, “Mary is a woman who loves.” This simple, but profound description of Mary perfectly captures the focus and significance of the Shrine of Our Lady of Divine Love. People come before her in pilgrimage over and over, and each time, they are reminded that they are loved.

The center of devotion at the shrine is a fresco that was originally painted on a tower in the early 1300s. For a few centuries, aside from some local shepherds who would gather near the tower to say their Rosary, few people knew of the image. That would change in 1740, when a traveler passing by the tower on his way to the Vatican was attacked by a pack of dogs. Looking up and seeing the image of Mary, he called on her protection and was miraculously saved. Word of this spread, and devotion to the image grew rapidly.

In 1745, a small church was built at the site of the original tower and the painting, which had been removed from the tower and temporarily housed in a local church, was moved back to its original location, now a shrine.

Roman affection and devotion for Our Lady of Divine love was further strengthened in World War II, when the Holy Father placed Rome under the protection of Our Lady of Divine Love. The image had been brought within the city walls and was temporarily housed in the Church of St. Ignatius. Following the liberation of Rome, in June 1944, Pius XII visited the image, attributed the city’s freedom to her intercession, and called her the Savior of Rome. Shortly after the war ended, the fresco was moved back to the shrine.

A new sanctuary, able to accommodate about 1,500 pilgrims, was completed in 1999. Visitors are now able to see both the original shrine and the new sanctuary. Care of the shrine has been entrusted to the Handmaids of Merciful Love and Sons of Merciful Love. The priests and sisters both look after the shrine and minister to the many pilgrims who visit the site.

Our Lady of Divine Love is distinct from St. Mary Major’s, which is the largest Marian church in Rome and one of the only four churches bearing the title Major Basilica. St. Mary Major and Our Lady of Divine Love are the two most well visited shrines in the region of Rome, and both numbered among the seven pilgrim churches where a plenary indulgence could be obtained during the Holy Year in 2000.

Mary, Mother of Divine Love, pray for us!

Why we should strive for imperfection

Why we should strive for imperfection

When perfection is the goal, you're doing more harm than good.

Is there such a thing as a perfect world, a perfect spouse, or a perfect job? Almost everyone knows the answer quite well: definitely not. Nonetheless, it’s fairly common for us to wear ourselves down looking for something which we rationally know doesn’t exist.

The ideal of perfection is conveyed to us starting when we are very young, with expressions such as, “I know you can do better, I know I can expect more from you,” and, “Don’t settle for mediocrity.” With these words, our teachers and parents want to motivate us to make an effort, to develop our full potential, and to do a good job.

Their intention is good, of course, and generally speaking it helps many children to be motivated, to push themselves, and to grow. In the case of some other children, it reinforces their competitive desire to do better than others and to be the first or the best. In still other cases, such words become a suffocating burden during childhood and adolescence, making perfection the goal that they seek in every area of their adult life.

It’s difficult to acknowledge that you’re looking for perfection, because true perfectionists try to downplay the leitmotiv of their lives, and of course, they don’t consider it a problem until someone points it out to them, or until they accumulate significant levels of anxiety and/or depression. They justify their perfectionism by saying, “I’m not a perfectionist; I just like things to be done right,” or, “It’s not a big deal, I’m just being responsible.”

Learning to recognize perfectionism

Let’s look at a few characteristics that define someone with a tendency to seek perfection in an egocentric way, and who could even end up developing behavior disorders:

  • Excessive self-control regarding what you feel and do. You evaluate your feelings and conduct over and over, and you don’t allow yourself to express your emotions spontaneously, because you’re extremely concerned about whether or not it is proper, pertinent, or prudent to show that you are happy, sad, or angry at a given moment.
  • Rigidity and insecurity when making decisions. You look for complete certainty in making the best possible decision, using up a lot of time and energy in evaluating every alternative. You can’t accept the idea of making a mistake.
  • Black and white thinking. Perfectionism and excessive idealism often are related to rigid mental structures. You think in terms of all or nothing. In your mind, things are good or bad, perfect or imperfect; and besides that, you see whatever is bad or imperfect as being catastrophic or horrible.
  • A strong sense of duty and discipline. You tend to plan each and every step you need to take when you set yourself an objective, making the greatest effort possible and investing a lot of time; consequently, it is very difficult for you to work on various objectives at the same time.
  • Inability to delegate or to ask for help. You always find fault—great or small—with what other people do, because you actually think that you are the only one who does things properly.

As a result of the above, perfectionists tend to suffer from high levels of anxiety. Their perfectionism is associated with insecurity and a lack of confidence; they are never happy with the results of their actions, and they refuse to accept any mistake or imperfection, equating it with a lack of personal worth. Their behavior may become rigid and controlling. However, pathological perfectionism is difficult to identify as such,because it tends to be confused with a benignly excessive sense of responsibility. It only starts to be questioned when the person starts to have health problems — signs from his body that it can’t take it anymore, that he’s forcing his organism beyond what is reasonable. Obviously, this has a negative impact on a physical and emotional level, which in turn affect their professional, social, family, and personal life. The result, paradoxically, is that he starts to be less effective than he wants.

What is hiding behind this search for perfection?

Many people who are perfectionists have powerful personal, professional, social, and ethical ideas, which rather than functioning as a guiding light — as would be desirable — become “imbedded” in their personality like a plug, blocking or hiding other aspects of their personality that they don’t want to acknowledge. Often, these hidden aspects make themselves known by causing psychological suffering, since, although we may try to hide them in the deepest part of our minds, they don’t disappear.

We can all suffer from some degree of unhealthy perfectionism. Today’s rhythm of life requires more and more haste, more efficacy, and more results. We develop a routine which, in the end, is a race in which it becomes more and more difficult to combine speed with right decisions. We don’t have enough time, and yet perfection seems to become the goal we must reach, at any cost. Nonetheless, and although it sounds paradoxical, perfection isn’t always perfect, as it can often end up implying more inconveniences than advantages for our physical and mental health.

A healthy search for perfection

The search for perfection and for self-improvement is something that, when done in a balanced way, is healthy, good, and necessary. When Jesus tells us in the Gospel (Matthew 5:48), “Be perfect, like your Heavenly Father is perfect,” it has nothing to do with the exaggerated egocentrism of someone seeking perfection as a goal in itself. Working towards a model of perfection and pursuing that ideal throughout our lives is a healthy stimulus when we use it as a means to improve both our own life and that of the people around us.

In order to approach perfection, we must learn from our mistakes. Every human being is entitled to be wrong sometimes, because that is part of our life experience, and through our errors we can learn to mature and improve in every aspect of our life. The problem is not the seeking of perfection, but the motivation that leads us to do so. Seeking perfection can be a very positive ideal when we do so for our own good and that of others, with a spiritual dimension which gives meaning to everything we do, without focusing only on ourselves.

 

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Pope’s Morning Homily April 26th 2018: ‘Love Is Without Limits’

Pope’s Morning Homily April 26th 2018: ‘Love Is Without Limits’

During Morning Mass, Francis Reminds Without Love, Church Cannot Move or Grow

Love is without limits, and without love, the Church cannot move or grow.

According to Vatican News, Pope Francis stressed this during his daily morning Mass at Casa Santa Marta as he reflected on the Last Supper, in which Jesus teaches love in the Eucharist and service in the washing of the feet.

Recalling today’s Gospel from St. John, the Pope highlighted that Jesus’ love that evening demonstrated that no servant is greater than the master.

The Gospel account, the Jesuit Pontiff explained, contains three foundational truths for the Church: Jesus teaches us love through the Eucharist, he teaches us service in the washing of the disciples’ feet, and says no servant is greater than his master.

Jesus, the Pope said, made two “institutional gestures” at the Last Supper: one, in giving His body to eat and His blood to drink in the Eucharist; two, in washing the disciples’ feet.

“These two actions,” he said, “reveal two commandments that will make the Church grow, if we are faithful.”

The first commandment, he noted, is love. “It is no longer “love your neighbor as yourself,” the Pope said, “because Jesus takes a step further, saying “love one another as I have loved you.”

“Love is without limits. Without it, the Church cannot move forward; the Church cannot breathe. Without love, she cannot grow, and is transformed into an empty institution, made up of appearances and actions without fecundity. In his bodily actions, Jesus tells us how we should love, that is, until the end.”

“Serve one another,” the Pope said is the second commandment, which was born out in the washing of the feet.

The third lesson, Francis stressed, involves serving humbly, knowing we are ‘sent’ and not greater than others.

“The awareness is that He is greater than all of us, and that we are servants who cannot go beyond Jesus. We cannot use Jesus. He is the Lord, not us. This is the Lord’s will. Giving himself to eat and drink, he tells us to love one another in this way. Washing the feet, he tells us to serve each other in like manner.”

“But beware,” Francis warned, “no servant is greater than the one who sent him, the master. These blunt words and actions are the foundations of the Church. If we proceed in like fashion with these three points, we shall never fail.”

Martyrs and many saints, the Pope said, acted “with the awareness of being servants.”

Pope Francis concluded, giving the following invitation: “Let Jesus’ gaze enter into me. We will feel many things: love, maybe nothing… We might feel trapped there or feel shame. But always let Jesus’ gaze in.”

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